Questions & answers

Dappling is an app for two. You add your plans, your partner adds theirs, and you both see each other’s day in one place. You can also share Moments, keep shared lists, answer daily prompts and send little love stamps.

Dappling is coming soon to iPhone and Android. When it launches, the download buttons on our homepage will take you straight to the App Store and Google Play.

Yes. Dappling works best with two people, so each of you needs your own account on your own phone.

Anyone aged 18 or over. See our Terms of Service for details.

1. One of you opens Invite your partner in the app to get a four-digit code.
2. Send that code to your partner.
3. Your partner opens Got an invite code? and enters the four digits.

As soon as the code matches, you’re connected and your days meet.

Check that every digit is right. Invite codes only last 15 minutes, so if it’s been a while, ask your partner to make a new one and try again.

No. Dappling connects you with one partner at a time.

You’ll stop seeing each other’s shared day. Your former partner loses access to your Moments, and a new partner won’t see Moments shared before you connected.

The most common reasons:

• You’ve reached today’s limit. There’s a daily limit on Moments, and it resets the next day.
• You’re sharing very quickly. If you see “You’re sharing a little fast”, wait a minute and try again.
• The photo is very large. Try a smaller photo or a screenshot of it.
• Camera or photo access is off. Turn it on for Dappling in your phone’s settings.
• Your connection dropped. Check you’re online and try again.

Only you and your connected partner.

Yes, you can delete a Moment you shared. Remember your partner may already have seen it.

• Check that notifications are allowed for Dappling in your phone’s settings.
• Check whether Focus or Do Not Disturb is turned on.
• Make sure you’re signed in, and that the app is up to date.

If your partner shares several Moments close together, you might get just one notification so your phone doesn’t keep buzzing.

Nudges are gentle reminders sent at set times of day to help you make room for what matters. Your partner can also send you a quick nudge or note.

In the app, go to Profile → Delete account. This deletes your profile, plans, tasks, lists, notes, Moments and photos, and disconnects you from your partner. Read more in our Privacy Policy.

Check that you’re using the email address you signed up with. If you still can’t get in, contact us from that email address and we’ll help.

No. We don’t sell your data and there are no ads in Dappling.

Insights use AI to suggest ways to balance your day. They’re written from summary numbers, such as how much time goes to each focus area. Your task names, notes and photos are never sent. Learn more.